["Tell me how you could say such a thing," She said, staring at the ground beneath her feet. "You're not telling me anything I don't know already. 'Relax your body, and the rest of you will lighten up.' What's the point of saying that to me? If I relax my body now, I'd fall apart. I've always lived like this, and it's the only way I know how to go on living.
If I relaxed for a second I'd never find my way back. I'd go to pieces, and the pieces would be blown away.] - Norwegian Wood Haruki Murakami